what company vps are you using(full specs wit os)? and distance between your vps provider and ISP?
I am in Oracle on a free tier VM.
- Availability domain = AD-1
- Fault domain = FD-1
- Region = iad
- Shape = VM.Standard.A1.Flex
- OCPU count = 4
- Network bandwidth (Gbps) = 4
- Memory (GB) = 24
- OS = Ubuntu
I am about 1,000 miles away but am close to a major internet hub and have full 1gb symetrical fiber.
Interestingly enough Emby and Plex work through this setup.